One of the most important aspects of communal living is getting along. Cooperating with your neighbors can be tough enough when you all share the same cul-de-sac in a quiet suburban neighborhood. But what about when you are all in the same apartment building? That situation presents a variety of challenges and sticky situations that you must learn to navigate and resolve. Luckily, we’ve put together this handy list of pointers on cultivating healthy relationships with your apartment community neighbors.
Introducing Yourself with Politeness and Respect
In this era of social distancing, introducing yourself can be tricky. Even so, politeness and respect should be the order of the day. People can be shy, introverted, or just disinterested in meeting someone new. Whatever you do, don’t force them to greet you or feel like you’re being confrontational. That will only make matters worse. Indicate which apartment belongs to you, and maybe inquire about a game night or other occasion for spending time together. Hanging out with a virtual stranger can be awkward for a little bit. As long as everyone is fully vaccinated against the virus, at the very least, it will be safer for everyone involved.
Strive to be a Pleasant Neighbor, Yourself
Another crucial piece of advice we have for you is based on common sense: try to be a good neighbor in general. Keep the golden rule in mind and make an effort to be as considerate as you can. Tell your neighbor if you see any suspicious activity going on around your building. Chances are good that they’ve noticed something shady but were unsure of how to report it. Likewise, give them some tips on dealing with the landlord or management company that you are all accountable to; avoiding late fees and basic in-unit problem-solving are tiny but meaningful ways to break the ice.
Offer to Perform Small Favors
Once you’ve gotten comfortable with your neighborhood, you can also feel more relaxed around the others living next to you, above you, or below you. Be reasonable when you volunteer your time, however. By offering to perform small favors for your neighbors, you are more likely to increase the friendship level between you and the other tenants. For instance, you could insist on looking after their pets or houseplants!
Be As Honest as Possible
In the end, honesty is the best policy. Being open and straightforward with everyone will help defuse tension. Conflicts are inevitable, and conflict resolution might not be the same as you remember from when you were in school. Friendliness matters, so don’t underestimate or abuse it.
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